Happenings

The Sex Lectures - Spain
The Sex Lectures is coming to Spain and making a weekend of it! You're invited to The Sex Lectures on Saturday evening 8-11pm and/or our Ink & Intimacy Writing Workshops on Saturday and Sunday.

The Sex Lectures - Queer & Kinky
Join us for an intimate and thought-provoking evening where speakers with bold, cutting-edge perspectives will share their ideas in six compelling 12-minute talks. This time, we’re celebrating a queer and kinky takeover!

Living the Wheel
Sex coach Sian Johnson is coming over and we’re experimenting with a 4 day workshop in “Living The Wheel”.

Evolve 2025
Evolve The Journey is a way of tapping into your visionary imagination to understand what your heart would like to create next.


Erotic and Personal Freedom Group Coaching
This course will suit curious souls who want liberation and awareness - if you’re stuck, if you’re seeking, if you love newness and variety, if you love information and want to know more before you join anything, if you have issues, if you think you know it all, if you’re confused, innocent, ashamed, guilty, ready to make changes or want insights. If you’ve heard about tantra or kink and what to know it could help your intimate life. If you want more intimacy and are willing to share, listen and hold space with others, you’re welcome here.

The Sex Lectures
The Sex Lectures are an enjoyable gathering amongst sex-positive friends and humans, interested in what creatives and conscious sexuality professionals have to offer in this realm. In these intimate and connecting evenings, speakers with unique and cutting-edge views will share their ideas in 6 thought-provoking 12-minute talks. The talks range from modern sex education to musings on the mystery of erotic encounters.

Corfu Island Retreat for 50+
Approaching your 50’s or already there? Be part of an adventure with 4 fantastic days and nights on the Island of Inis Mor where you will explore how you find greater freedom, flow and fulfilment as you age.
Enjoy and learn powerful practices that enhance life and have a positive effect on the ageing process while doing discovery walks in breath-taking nature.

The Sex Lectures
In these intimate and connecting evenings, speakers with unique and cutting-edge views will share their ideas in 6 thought-provoking 12-minute talks. The talks range from modern sex education to musings on the mystery of erotic encounters.

Sensual Salon
How do we have an expression of sensuality in our daily lives? How can we bring out this essence within us, connect to our own senses and body without being self-conscious? And how can we cultivate this and share it, accept and recognise it in each other?

Wise Guides Book Club - The Artist's Way
The Artist's Way by Julia Cameron helps you uncover your innate creativity and bring it out into the world in your unique way. In revealing self-awareness, you're encouraged to express and expand your beliefs around art and creativity.

The Sex Lectures
It’s human to be fascinated by the erotic, yet how do we move beyond current realities or limitations to a greater understanding of the power of sexuality for connection, consent, creativity, awareness and pleasure?

Wise Guides Book Club - The Wisdom of the Enneagram
A sophisticated spiritual and psychological tool, profiling nine Types of personality or ‘fixation.’ The Nine Types are The Perfectionist, The Helper, The Achiever, The Individualist, The Observer, The Loyalist, The Enthusiast, The Challenger, and The Peace-Maker. Each personality at its best has so much to offer.

The Sex Lectures
How can we let love enlighten us and eros enliven us? In these inspiring evenings, 6 speakers with unique and cutting-edge views in creativity and sexuality will share their ideas in thought-provoking 12 min talks.
https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/the-sex-lectures-tickets-399457868237

Wise Guide Book Club - The Erotic Mind
A radical sex therapy book to help us understand what will turn us on and why; what we’re trapped in and the way through it. The book asks you to identify and write down your four peak erotic experiences, two real and two fantasy, so you can begin to identify your Core Erotic Theme. Your CET will help you understand what’s always going to work for you, what gives you a personal erotic charge and why. And through seeing what you’ve overly focused on, you also get to identify the unresolved issues you’ve been avoiding. Once you know this, you can see what’s unconsciously pulling your strings.

The Sex Lectures 2022
How can we let love enlighten us and eros enliven us? In these inspiring evenings, 6 speakers with unique and cutting-edge views in creativity and sexuality will share their ideas in thought-provoking 12 min talks.
https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/the-sex-lectures-tickets-399457868237

Erotic Mysteries Deep Dive by Seani Love
I’m assisting Seani Love on this exploration of the mysterious places where Sacred Sexuality, Conscious Kink and the Human Shadow overlap.
Some of the things you’ll explore are Consent, Desires & Boundaries, clear communication for negotiating touch, D/s dynamics, Consensual non-consent exercises, Archetypes and how to use them in erotic spaces.
Modern Happening
What happens when we materialise out of screens into real-life meetings? How do we connect and feel curious and safe, open and steady? How do we understand trust and safety inside ourselves alongside feeling the aliveness that connection and intimate risk brings?

Sensual Salon
Pleasure and sensuality can feel frivolous in times like this. So pleasure becomes a radical act, subversively sexy, a time for ourselves to keep our erotic embers smouldering and our creative juices flowing. Let’s nurture a complicit sense of sensual connection.
What gives us the intimacy of sensuality? How do we express it more easily? Nath & Ali would love to dive into this realm with you. Every month we will host a salon in which sensuality is at the core. There will be sharings, playfulness, music, poetry and storytelling and mystery guests. It’ll be beautiful, creative, sometimes edgy, kind and spacious. You’ll meet like-minded souls, people who’re looking for a sensual expression of their innate being.

Desire, Connection, Intimacy
Open your mind to new and greater possibilities for an erotic life that leads to deeper connection in your relationship. Desire, Intimacy, Connection is for women who want to have more everyday intimacy, who want to see the bedroom as a renewed haven of love, experimentation and sensual refuge. Opening your mind to how female-led intimacy can renew your interest, will awaken you to new possibilities for pleasure and relationship.

Exploring Connection for Couples
The million dollar question for couples is how to maintain love and desire in a relationship. Love seeks closeness and desire needs distance. How do we maintain interest and variety in our everyday intimacy?

The Sex Lectures, Glasgow
In this inspiring and connecting evening, speakers with unique and cutting edge views on sexuality, relationships and love will share their ideas in pithy twelve minute talks.

The Sex Lectures
The Most Important Things are the Hardest to Talk About.
In these inspiring and connecting evenings, speakers with unique and cutting edge views on sexuality, relationships and love will share their ideas in pithy 12 minute talks.

Manchester Tantra Festival
The second Manchester Tantra Festival theme is love, sex and relationship, the “holy trinity” that brings passion, delight and ecstasy into our lives. We have invited guest practitioners, both in tantra and related practices, to join us. With all this talent, knowledge and experience to hand you can expect the second Manchester Tantra Festival to provide you with a fabulous range of inspiring, fun and juicy workshops to improve your love and sex life.

The Sex Lectures
The Most Important Things are the Hardest to Talk About.
In these four inspiring and connecting evenings, speakers with unique and cutting edge views on sexuality, relationships and love will share their ideas in pithy 12 minute talks.

The Sex Lectures
In these informative and connecting evenings, speakers with unique and cutting edge views on sexuality, relationships and love will share their ideas in pithy 12 minute talks.
Good Sex can offer both connection and pleasure. It’s human to be fascinated by sexuality, yet with the rise in divorce, Tinder and porn, we’re wondering how the current reality could move beyond #MeToo and Cosmo to a greater understanding of the power of sexuality for connection, creativity, awareness and pleasure. How can we let love enlighten us, and sex truly enliven us? Come and join us for new ideas. These relaxed yet thought provoking evenings will include 6 talks and time to meet and mingle.

The Sex Lectures - December 2018
Changing The Conversation
The Most Important Thing are the Hardest to Talk About.
In these inspiring and connecting evenings, speakers with unique and cutting edge views on sexuality, relationships and love will share their ideas in pithy 12 minute talks.
Good Sex can offer both connection and pleasure. It’s human to be fascinated by sexuality, yet with the rise in divorce, Tinder and porn, we’re wondering how the current reality could move beyond #MeToo and Cosmo to a greater understanding of the power of sexuality for connection, creativity, awareness and pleasure. How can we let love enlighten us, and sex truly enliven us?
Come and join us to begin a new conversation. These relaxed yet thought provoking evenings will include 6 talks and time to meet and mingle, seduce and flirt.
https://www.funzing.com/sd/NdObZl

The Sex Lectures - November 2018
Changing The Conversation
The Most Important Thing are the Hardest to Talk About.
In these inspiring and connecting evenings, speakers with unique and cutting edge views on sexuality, relationships and love will share their ideas in pithy 12 minute talks.
Good Sex can offer both connection and pleasure. It’s human to be fascinated by sexuality, yet with the rise in divorce, Tinder and porn, we’re wondering how the current reality could move beyond #MeToo and Cosmo to a greater understanding of the power of sexuality for connection, creativity, awareness and pleasure. How can we let love enlighten us, and sex truly enliven us?
Come and join us to begin a new conversation. These relaxed yet thought provoking evenings will include 6 talks and time to meet and mingle, seduce and flirt.
Cost £15 TO BOOK Paypal alisonpilling@hotmail.com
or email learn@sexschoolforgrownups.com for BACS

Thursday Lates at The Whitworth: Art, Intimacy, Sexuality, Consent
This free, open workshop brings together Art Historian Sara Riccardi and Intimacy Coach Alison Pilling in an exchange on how art has historically engaged with issues of intimacy and sexuality and its relevancy today.
Sara Riccardi will respond to the Whitworth Collection with a talk that questions the role of art in representing themes of love, desire, sex and consent.
In a practical workshop, Alison Pilling will discuss the latest ideas around consent and touch in the sex education community and invites you to consider how you can develop consenting, satisfying relationships. Alison has trained with the leading pioneering sex educators in the world and will share practical tips on creating meaningful connections.
If you’re fascinated and slightly confused by relationships and curious about what art offers to guide us through, this evening promises a thought-provoking experience.
https://www.facebook.com/events/688404128197344/

The Sex Lectures - October 2018
Changing The Conversation
The Most Important Thing are the Hardest to Talk About.
In these inspiring and connecting evenings, speakers with unique and cutting edge views on sexuality, relationships and love will share their ideas in pithy 12 minute talks.
Good Sex can offer both connection and pleasure. It’s human to be fascinated by sexuality, yet with the rise in divorce, Tinder and porn, we’re wondering how the current reality could move beyond #MeToo and Cosmo to a greater understanding of the power of sexuality for connection, creativity, awareness and pleasure. How can we let love enlighten us, and sex truly enliven us?
Come and join us to begin a new conversation. These relaxed yet thought provoking evenings will include 6 talks and time to meet and mingle, seduce and flirt.
Cost £15 TO BOOK Paypal alisonpilling@hotmail.com
or email learn@sexschoolforgrownups.com for BACS
Take A Taste
Sex School for Grown Ups presents Take A Taste as a stand-alone experiential evening in its own right and also as a taster for those who want to go deeper, to the 3 day series Relaxing into Pleasure
To book: http://www.sacredlighttantra.com/buy-tickets/tickets-relaxingintopleasure/ and hit the option Take A Taste of Relaxed Pleasure
What does pleasure mean for you and how can you recognise it? How can you relax into a pleasurable encounter or relationship and stay aware of yourself?
Trust and Feel. Trust is a key issue in relaxed pleasure. Trust in ourselves and in our partner is vital to add to our enjoyment. As is learning to notice and feel what is pleasurable for us. Join Alison for a workshop that was one of the highlights of the Manchester Tantra Festival. Expanding our experience of sensual touch, we can learn to be aware of ourselves in the presence of another. This builds courage, sensual pleasure and connection.
In a gentle and enjoyable blend of Alison’s work in Tantra, sexological body work and conscious kink you’ll come to understand the joys of initiating for yourself, understand more about your pleasure, learn about sensual, nurturing and erotic touch, learn to focus attention in your own body, be more creative and courageous, have fun meeting others in short encounters. There will be space to discuss your fears and hopes as a human who simply wants to be open about the longing to feel connection and pleasure. Understanding why, how and then what. Being a sex geek is fun and confidence building. Curiosity and courage is all you need.
Taste of Taking £10 + £0.56 PayPal Fee. To book: http://www.sacredlighttantra.com/buy-tickets/tickets-relaxingintopleasure/
or email learn@sexscchoolforgrownups.com
Detailed Direction at http://www.thepathwaysstudio.com/venue/directions
Tod Talks
DEATH, SEX AND CURRENCY
WE’RE BURNING TO SHARE
Belting it out without a bible, seditious, salacious, radical and subversive, we want to hear it.
Tod Talks are held in a grade one listed gothic revival church.
The line up of speakers have 10 minutes to share their ideas and convert or seduce the audience to your unique way of thinking.
No holy water or other magic needed..kind intent and the power of your words is enough.
Dating Tips from the Tantric Temple
Are you enjoying Dating or do you need some inspiration and freshness to your approach?
Maybe drinking and hooking-up doesn’t appeal to you anymore, or never did?
Do you long for a date that’s meaningful, connected and enjoyable which leaves you feeling affirmed and joyful, even if it doesn’t go further than one evening?
If your dates are non existent, boring or disappointing and you want to be a part of something slow not speedy, accepting rather than competing, and somewhere where you’ll learn new tips and ideas in the company of kind, intelligent people, come and join Tantra teacher Annabel Newfield and Sexpert and Tantric Realist Alison Pilling for a light hearted fun loving Valentines evening.
The Genius Between Your Legs
Y*ni Pu*sy, V*lva Cu*t..whatever your choice of word did you know there’s power and wisdom and creative genius between your legs and what’ more she speaks! Words of love and longing, wisdom and wildness, sadness and sassiness and if we simply listen pure kindness will pour forth.
With a gentle and playful way in through words, movement and art we can coax, encourage and listen to her story..and we’ll make art with her words.
Join artist and creative genius Heidi Chadwick and Tantric Realist and artist Alison Pilling in a loving day, devoted to finding your authentic artistic expression in the realm of exploring your sensuality and sexuality, body and voice.
By the end of the day weaving through a tender and deepening and possibly surprisingly irreverent journey, you’ll have produced a meaningful and beautiful piece of personal sacred Yoni art.