Welcome, I’m Ali
creator of The Sex Lectures,
a Sexological Bodyworker and writer by desire
Welcome to my world where I’m sharing the fruits of a decade in the erotic realms working with amazing teachers through training in the Wheel of Consent, Tantra, Sex Bod and Conscious Kink. It’s modern sex education mixed with self-awareness, creative touch and consent.
WHAT MIGHT BE POSSIBLE FOR INTIMACY?
How do we expand our experiences, close the pleasure gap in our own lives and find the courage to follow our soul’s longing?
Sex isn’t an obvious or easy route, yet it’ll show you who you are and who you might become. Freedom, love, relationships and intimacy matter and are a big influence on our ability to be happy. And yet none of us have had much education or information about how to do this well.
I was scared too. From tiny steps of intention, with a focus on courage, learning, healing, touch and pleasure, it’s possible to overcome shyness, shame and judgment of yourself and others.
I imagine you’re here because you're ready to make some changes and learn. I invite you to admit your longing and curiosity about intimacy. I support you with a wealth of lived experience, insight and ideas, focused on what you’d love to learn and create.
Letting go is a journey from innocence to experience and back again. Let’s take the time to consider erotic choices and the potential of creative and sensual freedom.
After many life changes, I live in Corfu, where I’m the owner of Mandala House in Arillas, a place for creative expression and collective living, connection and artistry. Bring a project, bring your longing, confusion and tiredness. Let me support you in broadening the variety of what’s possible, to make communication clear and pleasure erotic.
Professionally, I’ve been a practitioner, coach and teacher of Sexological Bodywork since 2014 and have personally explored Tantra and Shadow Healing, roving around the erotic realms in search of creativity, great touch, sensual and energetic expression, and found wonderful people and experiences.
Our time together allows you to discover who you are, who you might become, what you might like to feel, and how to touch. With care, sensuality and creativity, I offer a space to listen, share and find embodied variety, novelty and possibility. Experience beauty and kindness in the House of Consent.
Ways to connect and work with me
In 2025 there are more ways to be together, from joining an event to coming to live with me. Whether you want to buy a ticket to The Sex Lecs, join an online writing month, read my writing, join TabooFest, work together, experience or train in Sexological Bodywork, or explore aspects of intimacy and awareness on the beautiful island of Corfu. Let’s connect and create magic.
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Corfu Living
I have rooms for rent in an 18th C Greek manor house in a quiet village called Magoulades, a few minutes from the beach in the beautiful, spiritual community of Arillas. A nexus point, Mandala House loves to attract interesting people, so come, bring a book or a project, and take refuge in the peace. Or make it a time for art, a healing holiday, exploring the special places and people in Arillas within the natural island beauty of Corfu.
Welcome to the House of Consent. Let’s live together in sunshine, sensuality and sweet harmony.
Price: Rooms from €45 per night (1 person)
Private Client retreats - Bespoke. Let’s create something together in the realms of intimacy, creativity and spirituality.
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Mentoring
I listen with unconditional positive regard to your intention for the session, allowing you to feel seen, heard and understood. If you’d like observations, questions or suggestions, I offer those. It’s spacious, emotionally intelligent and pragmatic coaching. No expensive programmes or promises. I’m happy for you to have 1 session or a short series. I’m a sounding board for your vision and learning.
Whatever stage of the journey you’re at, we can focus on your intention, clarity or client work. You choose what matters to you in the moment. I believe in you and support you. I’ve been a coach and mentor to Sexological Bodyworkers and other practitioners for a decade. It’d be an honour to work with you as you offer your important, vital work in the world.
Price: £70/€70 per hour online.
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Sexological Bodywork
If you’re ready to be a practitioner, the Sexological Bodywork training course prepares you to teach somatic sex education to individuals, couples and groups. It is an experiential training that provides direct somatic learning opportunities that emphasise erotic embodiment. It’s 9 months online with group learning and individual practices, including two embodiment weeks.
As an individual, if you’d like to learn and experience some of the tools of ‘Sex Bod’ which have the greatest effect on our ability and willingness to recognise and feel pleasure, let’s explore. You can experiment with Bossy Massage, or play the 3-minute game, creative touch, embodied requests, express limits and work with the Wheel of Consent. Sessions are possible online and in real life.
Price: £80/€80 per hour
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Spaces to Write
Budding writers, changemakers and artists unite - come and sit still and write as an online group. We write for an hour a day together and individually. We have a word count spreadsheet that dommes us and we focus for a month. We have prompts from Nath, a safe space to write and without comment. The support of the structure and group help us to form good writing habits in fine company. Write whatever you like, form your ideas, PR, course, articles, journals and bring your ideas to life.
October is writing month in Corfu - check out the Happenings here. Whether you want to Write from the Body, Sensualise your Life or Write, Pitch and Enjoy, you’re invited to Arillas and to get to know yourself and other creatives.
Or create your own private writers or artists residency. We have the space and support.
Prices vary by Happening
