Welcome, I’m Ali
creator of The Sex Lectures,
a Sexological Bodyworker and writer by desire
Welcome to my world where I’m sharing the fruits of a decade in the erotic realms working with amazing teachers through training in the Wheel of Consent, Tantra, Sex Bod and Conscious Kink. It’s modern sex education mixed with self-awareness, creative touch and consent.
WHAT MIGHT BE POSSIBLE FOR INTIMACY?
How do we expand our experiences, close the pleasure gap in our own lives and find the courage to follow our soul’s longing?
Sex isn’t an obvious or easy route, yet it’ll show you who you are and who you might become. Freedom, love, relationships and intimacy matter and are a big influence on our ability to be happy. And yet none of us have had much education or information about how to do this well.
I was scared too. From tiny steps of intention, with a focus on courage, learning, healing, touch and pleasure, it’s possible to overcome shyness, shame and judgment of yourself and others.
I imagine you’re here because you're ready to make some changes and learn. I invite you to admit your longing and curiosity about intimacy. I support you with a wealth of lived experience, insight and ideas, focused on what you’d love to learn and create.
Letting go is a journey from innocence to experience and back again. Let’s take the time to consider erotic choices and the potential of creative and sensual freedom.
After many life changes, I live near Arillas in Corfu, a place for creative expression and collective living, connection and artistry.
Professionally, I’ve been a practitioner, coach and teacher of Sexological Bodywork since 2014 and have personally explored Tantra and Shadow Healing, roving around the erotic realms in search of creativity, great touch, sensual and energetic expression, and found wonderful people and experiences.
Let me support you in broadening the variety of what’s possible, to make communication clear and pleasure erotic. Our time together allows you to discover who you are, who you might become, what you might like to feel, and how to touch. With care, sensuality and creativity, I offer a space to listen, share and find embodied variety, novelty and possibility.
Ways to connect and work with me
Begin as a client, become a friend. From joining an event to coming to visit me at my home in Corfu, there are ways to connect. Whether you want to buy a ticket to The Sex Lecs, be part of an online writing group, join Ali’s World, enjoy TabooFest, be mentored or benefit from Sexological Bodywork, let’s connect and create magic.
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Corfu Living
By some miracle, I live in an old Greek manor house in a quiet village called Magoulades, a few minutes from the beach in the beautiful, spiritual community of Arillas. My home is a nexus point for interesting people, so you’re invited to come and visit, bring a book or a project, and take refuge in the peace. You can enjoy time for art and a holiday, exploring the special places and people in Arillas within the natural island beauty of Corfu. Read about the biggest experiment and challenge of my life in Postcards from the Edge.
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Mentoring
I listen with unconditional positive regard to your intention for the session, allowing you to feel seen, heard and understood. If you’d like observations, questions or suggestions, I offer those. It’s spacious, emotionally intelligent and pragmatic coaching. I’m happy for you to have 1 session or a short series. I’m a sounding board for your vision and learning. I’ve been a coach and mentor to Sexological Bodyworkers and other practitioners for a decade. It’d be an honour to work with you as you offer your important, vital work in the world.
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Sexological Bodywork
As an individual, if you’d like to learn and experience some of the tools of ‘Sex Bod’, you can work 1-1 with me to understand your erotic mind, experiment with the Wheel of Consent, Bossy Massage, and learn to express limits and embodied requests, by playing the 3-minute game. Sessions are possible online and in real life.
If you’re ready to be a practitioner, the 2027 Sexological Bodywork training course prepares you to teach somatic sex education to individuals, couples and groups. It is a 9-month online, experiential training that offers somatic learning, including two UK embodiment weeks in Hebden Bridge.
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Spaces to Write
Writers, changemakers and artists unite! If you like to sit still and write as an online group, I co-host Space to Write twice a year. We have a word count spreadsheet that dommes us and we focus for a month, with prompts from Nath in a safe space to write. The support of the structure and group helps us to form good writing habits in fine company.
And if you’d like to write in sunshine, LuSH - Love Sex & Hope is happening in June with Monique Roffey and Marianne Power, and you’re invited to Sensualise your Writing in September.
