You decide

what pleasure means to you

erotic and otherwise

Alison Pilling (she/they) is a teacher, writer and mentor, on a personal and professional journey through the erotic realms. Exploring the world of conscious sensuality, pleasure and power in myriad ways towards personal and erotic freedom.

As creator and host of The Sex Lectures, Ali offers a permissive space for promoting sex-positive information and inspiration. As a mentor, she’s a sounding board for your inspiration. As a writer, she shares her world and holds space for yours. 

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Feeling like there is more than you have experienced in sex is natural.

Of course, there’s more: healing, fun, eroticism, better touch, better relationships, better styles of communication and understanding. Rather than feeling bewildered or complaining about where you’re at, the decision may only be giving the time to explore what that ‘more’ could be. 

The decision is the sliding door.

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Report from Greco

These blogs follow the story of the magic of Mandala, a Greek manor house in Corfu, from Ali's sharings on Facebook. A modern-day quest, from hearing the call to Corfu to the latest unfolding of happenings at Mandala. Trusting, quirky, and collective, the following excerpts give a flavour of who showed up over a timeline of transformation.