Research

I’m doing research into objectification. I’m beginning to realise how much men want it. Being seen, even when being used, allows a visibility and attention that the pillow princesses may rarely give, or have the skill, interest or confidence to mete out. I’ve learned that you have to put your people pleaser in the corner, and not care that much if someone likes it or not, as long as they’re willing to do what you want to try. Then have the imagination to issue, or follow, a few commands. Are you willing to do what you’re asked, so someone else can feel what they’ve never dared try? Are you willing to push beyond being caring, serving, nice or good so your object feels the blush of humiliation, or the vulnerability of being observed in their nakedness? It is relaxing being objectified. Within boundaries, you don’t have to think. Objectification is edgy, which is what makes it worthwhile. I’ll carry on with the research.