Approach

Gosh, sexting is time-consuming. Following an old fantasy I’ve long held but never enacted, about being picked up in a hotel bar, an old friend followed me in the dance of power and pleasure. For him, the initial approach was nerve-racking. He was polite and elegant. The moment of leaving the bar to go to his imaginary room was braver than I imagined. Being in there together was still, gentle and then surprising. Not falling back on PIV sex or pleasure revolving around a hard-on, orgasm or ejaculation.  I got to know an old friend from a different lifetime, in a newer innocence than I might have found in real life. Sexting slowed it all down, with time consumed in relaxed arousal in a make-believe hotel room. That met my troublesome turn on with aplomb.