Get

Giving to get is horrible. Please just stop it. It’s easy to see through it, the desperation is a give away. Ask for what you want instead, it is okay for you to have needs. Someone may be happy to help you. Or if it’s the search for validation or affirmation, it’s time to believe it in yourself. While giving to get is tough to recognise, it is liberating to stop. Having boundaries while respecting the limits of others stops the intrusion, control and guilt tripping.