Contradictions

The contradictions of love, safety and freedom intrigue me. Is the answer to spread the paradox around? Can we be poly when single, and monogamous when in a relationship? Is that a thing?  If I’m living it, it’s a thing. We simply need to be clear, and cool with honesty and contradiction. It annoys and confuses the old skool poly people who want clear classifications and labels. If only responses and emotions were so rational.