Entirety

Imagine intimacy where nothing you don’t want to happen would happen. Consensuality as a given. It doesn’t mean we won’t make mistakes but it means we have the freedom to change our minds, to move away from what we’re not enjoying with ease. Where the choosing is more important than the doing. For hazy, expansive, dreamy touch that’s relaxing, curious and arousing, slowing down, softer strokes, and inncocent touch helps. Feeling our way around another's body, their entirety, the smoothness of their skin, the soft parts, the surprise parts. Enjoy the slow freedom to feel soft hair, bristles, tenderness, to smell scents, to pause, to notice, to sink into safe space, free of fending off intrusive forays. The body becomes an open space, not a battle ground, wretched sex-bucket list, race to the finish or the floundering to satisfy unspoken expectation. There’s so much potential for change and pleasure, in breath, movement and sound with new erogenous zones to discover.