Allow

What can you say yes to with an open heart, knowing it’s not for you, that you’re free of responsibility, that you don’t have to guess? All you have to do is inwardly patrol your stated boundaries. Sometimes you’ll be bored. That's ok, it’s not about you. Sometimes you’ll enjoy it. That’s ok, it’s not about you. Sometimes you’ll be surprised. Isn't that joyful? Mostly, you’ll be relaxed. You stated your limits; no one will transgress them. Doing nothing allows the other to have their experience and you to have yours. Allow them to be different.