Dates: 14, 21, 28 January, 4, 18 February 7-9.30pm. 5 sessions £120
For Women in Couples; Open your mind to new possibilities for an erotic life that leads to deeper connection in your relationship. This is course for women who want to add variety and greater connection to their love-life.
Desire, Intimacy, Connection is for women who want to have more everyday intimacy, who want to see the bedroom as a renewed haven of love, experimentation and sensual refuge. Opening your mind to how female-led intimacy can renew your interest, will awaken you to new possibilities for pleasure and relationship.
Creates an awakening in women for a greater sense of their erotic self .
Allows more nurturing with every day intimacy at the core.
Offers a new understanding of how important and interesting an erotic life can be to new satisfying levels of relating with fun, confidence and joy.
Enhances the bond that runs through the relationship
Admit it, we’re bored with the ‘performance’ model of sex where it’s like getting on the same old conveyor belt with a few variations. This prevailing model limits men and women alike. Although it can have its moments, to go beyond this it’s up to us to change the status quo with more variety, information excitement and fun.
We know that sex can becomes same-same and women get bored. Yet it’s easy to avoid having ‘the conversation’ about what ‘better sex’ might be like if we’ve never experienced anything different.
I’m looking for a group of 6-8 women who are in supportive loving partnerships and want to learn more about keeping intimacy alive by adding variety to what happens to your body and in your bedroom. Or kitchen. Or living room. It’s about learning how to slow down and have more sensual, interesting, compelling reasons to get close up and possibly naked. To embody the different aspects of you that can get lost amidst the day to day.
In these sessions you’ll open your mind to:
Erotic Realms. Learn more about the possibilities for sex, identify your habits and sexual style, understand more about what’s possible and what you might be open to. Share your peak experiences so you know what will always work for you.
Your Body and the Vocabulary of sex. Let’s get talking about anatomy and pleasure. Let’s get brave about expressing the words for sex and getting specific about sensual places.
Sensual Erotic Touch will improve the quality of your sex life. Understand how slowing down, noticing more, using the qualities of presence and mindfulness will add to your willingness and ‘wantingness’ to explore.
Female Arousal. Learn how this is different from male sexual energy. using breath, movement and voice. How to generate your own sexual energy and begin to see it as your life-force.
Fascination with your partner’s body. What do you want to do to them? How to see beyond the usual version of male pleasure and bring out your own desire for their body. How to change the focus and see touching your partner as part of your pleasure - in the nicest possible way!
END RESULTS: You become central to your own sexual experience, sex is not just something that ‘happens to you’ or ‘you do for your partner.’ You’ll broaden you repertoire of pleasure and intimacy. This course is about understanding that erotic connection doesn’t always always have lead to penetrative sex. Instead it’s about offering closeness and honesty, being brave and being seen. You’ll get off the sex conveyor belt into something more curious, fun and life-enhancing.
If you’d rather come as a couple, I’m offering a shorter 3 week course for 3 couples.
Open Your Sexy Minds. 16, 23, 30 January 7-9.30 pm for Couples, 3 sessions £120 per couple
Call Ali on 07984 443069 for more information. To book use this link or pay or Pay Pal: alisonpilling@hotmail.com. Or ask for bank details.