Wired

Let’s stop generalising that we’re all wired for this or that. Especially touch. Some folx can’t get enough, for others, it needs to be specific, and only from certain people. I’m on edge with people rubbing my back in a hug, for example, yet a still hug with closeness is much appreciated. I prefer space, excitement and exploration to a cuddle puddle, while others love the draping and dreamlike states there. You can choose your touch as it’s not all the same quality. Becoming discerning takes awareness and contrast.