Head

Allowing the parts of our personalities that we often feel are unacceptable is freeing. Giving them expression with consenting adults who want what you try to hide, and who will support you to feel the permission and experience you seek to heal, builds trust in life. Transformation happens when we can be more of who we are and might be. I’ve come away from D/s workshops feeling like a Head of Household relationship would suit me. That polyamory could get more done. That having ‘men in service’ might not be as demanding as I think. That’s my job. Whether I’ll put any of it into action isn't as important as accepting these aspects in me.