Squish
Getting love right in messages is an art form. Please don’t send me long squishy hugs or smoochy kisses, I’ll recoil. Extra declarations of love confuse me; I don’t know what to do with them. While the ‘hugs if you want them’ can initially feel contrived, on balance, I find there’s more space around the latter. I generally use Hugs xx. I wonder who I’m underwhelming or giving the ick to?