Sameness

Don’t sit alone with your wondering or suffering. Find support, join a group, find a therapist, take a course. Calling a friend goes some of the way, but likely, they won’t have the time, patience or skill to know how to help you move on. Otherwise, you’re staring into a future of sameness, feelings intensifying, begging for your attention. Time alone isn’t a great enough healer. You can try to bury your desires and demons, but they’ll just come back in different places. New perspectives offer space, so we can stop believing everything we think.