Face
One of the most erotic experiences at TabooFest was a workshop on facial dominance. Controlling the sub by moving their face, and being controlled, was an exercise in seeing how far we could trust, take and let go with each other. Sensual erotic moments of putting my fingers in his mouth, the allowance of penetrating. Feeling his gloved fingers in my mouth, a longing to suck and swallow emerged. Lastly, the flimsy, spacious, clear plastic bags over the head, playing with each other's lives in our hands as we twisted or loosened the air supply. I’m not naturally submissive, but it’s the nearest I’ve felt to what I imagine teetering on the edge of subspace might offer. Trust is erotic.