Ikigai

Ikigai is mid point where what we can offer, what we love, what the world needs, what we’re good at, and what we can get paid for meet. The Sex Lectures came out of this concept, creating an accessible and acceptable way to learn about possibilities for varied sexual expression. I ponder now what the world needs that I can offer? I sense it’s connection. In our increasingly fragmenting society of isolating individualism, meeting trusted companions and allies who look out for each other is precious. In the absence of reliable family, friends who offer support, and who witness our difficult and joyful moments encourage us and rein in our self-destructive tendencies. Knowing who we can rely on, and who loves us matters. Experiencing that, however briefly, fills enough of our hope cup up.