Fluidity
I love the broadest definition of Queer as not straight. Leaving the heteronormative escalator, experimenting with different relationship models and erotic styles, and stopping conforming to unconscious roles, and straight or tantric versions of polarity. Rather than an identity crisis, it’s an invitation to freedom, to possibility, to fluidity beyond the binary ordinary. Allowing that curiosity into being is exciting, wondering who or what will bring out aspects of a soul in waiting? Being intimate, being close, consenting and confident in our connections is of ever greater importance. In finding solace, acceptance, support and pleasure, the erotic matters.