Submission
Is it worthwhile to explain my understanding of the difference between a man ‘in service’ and a man ‘in submission’? I’d take the former any day. A man in service is there to do what I want, though he has the power to say no. With a man in submission it’s the opposite. The Domme is in service to them. It looks like the Domme is in charge either way, yet there’s a subtle, vital difference. It’s back to the key question, “Who is it for?” With a man in service, it’s for me, with a man in submission, it’s ultimately for them; but they want to believe it’s for the Domme.