Bowl
I have a small package of slips of paper with possibilities from some of the times I’ve played the game of taking it in turns. All the ideas are dropped into a gong bowl, and you take it in turns to pick out ideas. The responses to the ideas could be ‘Yes, no, maybe, later, not this evening, or never’. Setting a timer to try the choice out, when the alarm goes off (or when one person loses willingness), you stop. Riffling amongst the fading inspiration slips in different handwritings in smiling remembrance of connections past, I find: yabyum, dress up, hot oil massage, 10 mins free choice, soul gazing, bind my wrists together slowly, read to me, shower together, B2B massage. Those were devotional, fun, pleasurable times.