Turnaround

A challenge for my personality has been wondering where to commit, to overturn years of unconscious avoidance. I tried the wrong person for the right reason, to overcome a fear of entrapment. A Human Design reader told me I’ll only commit when I know I’m free to leave. Then I’ll choose the long rein or golden handcuffs willingly. Naturally uncompromising, I’m no longer cut out for tolerance of committing to an incompatible relationship, so I don’t have to be alone. Nor to ‘work on it’ in endless therapy. Believe me, you wouldn’t want the resentment or bondage either. I love the idea of hand-fasting, committing for a year and a day. If you ever see that happening, please know the effort of a lifelong turnaround. What a volte-face that joy and terror might be.