Blessed

In Sexological Bodywork training, I discovered a piece of research into ‘sexual potential’ which names three main sexual styles, known as ‘erotic realms’ -  Partner Engagement, Trance and Play. As fundamental sex education, developing an interest in exploring the erotic realms, rather than having a cup of tea, another incompatible date, meditating or joining the Ramblers, is worthwhile. Scenery is wonderful, don’t get me wrong, yet there are hidden landscapes within us, beyond ageing ten years in a pair of waterproofs with an elastic waist. Comfy ain’t going to cut it in the realm of expanding pleasure. To be able to move in all three realms is how to be in the blessed few who create wonderful, varied experiences.