Past
Letting the past define you is a waste of time. The point is to be free of the past. Yes, let it inform you, but getting free is the game. Rather than devoting yourself to it, getting beyond what happened matters. Otherwise, you’re reminded again of the injustice, humiliation, betrayal, abandonment or powerlessness. Again and again. Crusading is fine, so is helping other survivors. It’s not all you are. There’s so much more freedom.