Reckoning

What would your most recent ex say is tough to be with you? Why did your exes leave you? While not all of them are worth listening to, is it worth a modicum of your time to work out your pattern of where your shadows have played out time after time? Your avoidance or anxiety, your need for validation or control, your resistance to change, your unspoken expectations, your unconscious rules for love, the annoying things you do and are dissatisfied with. Add to that lack or excess of self-belief, narcissism or princess and the pea pickiness. It wasn’t just them, it’s also you. Still, it's good to be free.