Martyr

Being a martyr sucks. Don’t do it. No one cares and you’ll be exploited. While you may have a good sob story to tell, what’s much better is to find your inner power and boundaries. Then there’s a chance to tell a better story - of living what you’d love without feeling selfish. As we nurture our heart’s dreams, connection and mutuality matters, so don’t get enrolled into the wrong thing. “No” is your friend. Try it. It leaves much more time for listening to and saying yes to your own heart.