Timelessness

One of the signs of peak sexual experiences is the expansion or contraction of time. Rather than chasing peak orgasm, followed by a crash and disconnection, we can move into the territory of pleasure as an undulating wave. Learning to love the pauses in pleasure is key to this. There’s the breathing space and awareness that we’re enjoying the experience as we’re in it, rather than striving for the orgasmic goal as a way of pleasing someone else. Can we trust that if we’re naked in a room together, that might just be a pretty spectacular gift anyway?