Practice
I used to love my early Tantra days when, between workshops, I’d meet up with other participants and practice the structures we’d learned. Whether that was something as simple as eye gazing, or practising pleasure island, massage, or healing in groups, the gradual trust in time-limited meetings that weren’t a fast track to becoming relationships allowed each of us to grow in touch, experience, and expectation. Reducing the chatter of projection, there was a clarity and purpose to the meetings, and bonding beyond the usual.