Humiliation
In dredging the unconscious drivers that were running me, there has been a growing personal and erotic freedom. Years ago, I had no idea how to play. I had no idea there was much more to kink than pain and pvc. Yet my ignorance and prejudices have given way to a genuine appreciation and admiration for the subtle and deep power of transformation and fun, alongside a strengthening of my personal limits and desires. Though, I had an edge around Humiliation when a practice partner said to me, “Call yourself a sex coach? When did you last have a relationship that worked?”